We Need To Encourage More People To Pursue Higher Education - Honolulu Civil Beat

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Jenny Delos Santos

Jenny Delos Santos is a community advocate for mental health and domestic violence.

Caroline Kunitake

Caroline Kunitake is a member of the American Association of University Women’s Honolulu branch.

Higher education and professional training are often out of reach for those less fortunate. The American Association of University Women Honolulu improves gender equity and economic security by offering local scholarships and grants to traditional and nontraditional female students.

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Earlier this year, AAUW Honolulu invited Jenny Delos Santos to share her journey pursuing a bachelor’s degree in journalism. Jenny encourages anyone to pursue higher education/training to open up opportunities to better paying jobs. Read her message below.

When I was in high school, no one told me to go to college or the university. I was the third-highest student in a class of 500 to graduate, but no one encouraged me to seek higher education. I don’t think both of my parents even graduated from high school, and I had no role model to follow in their footsteps.

My mom told me, “You don’t have to go to college. You can work yourself way up the ladder.” As a result, I went to work at a clothing store in downtown Honolulu. After the summer of 1978, I applied at Bank of Hawaii and was first hired as a mail clerk and later transferred to the Visa Department. Not once did I ever think of going to night school to earn a degree.

My whole life changed in October 1987 when I left an abusive husband in California. I took Charles and Christina, my two toddlers, back to Hawaii. The first thing I did was apply for welfare benefits, including financial, food stamps and medical.

Since then the Welfare Department encouraged all clients to seek higher education in order to have a good job so that we could take care of our family without the state’s help. It was my goals and dreams that would carry us through all the obstacles and challenges of life. I decided I wanted to be an anchor on a news station, specifically for KGMB.

I was so happy attending Leeward Community College and the University of Hawaii Manoa. Many people helped my mentally ill children and me in any way they could. Many others thought I was crazy! Realistically I couldn’t meet my children’s need for support and their lives suffered as I pursued my degree. I loved the classes, especially political science and English. I even interned for the late Congressman K. Mark Takai just to get a grade and experience working in the Hawaii State Capitol.

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The authors encourage anyone to pursue higher education and training to open up opportunities to better paying jobs. Cory Lum/Civil Beat/2022

In the summer of 2000, I finally graduated with my bachelor’s in journalism. I was elated to reach my ultimate dream. However, no one prepared me for what would happen after graduation. I had no role model, and I didn’t have anyone to ask questions. I also didn’t know that I had to search high and low for a job. I thought that it would be easy to get a job in local media and that anyone would want to hire me. I was wrong.

I ended up in an accounting firm instead of a newsroom. I got so depressed since I didn’t end up in my intended field of study. I went to school for almost a decade in order to earn my journalism degree. Depression and alcoholism became my best friend until I ended up in the psych ward. I eventually recovered. Two years later I landed a job at the Honolulu Star-Advertiser as an editorial assistant. I wasn’t a reporter, but I was happy enough to get a job with the newspaper.

As my happiness slowly wore off, I realized I didn’t make enough money to take care of my children and myself. So, I tried to go to school at night; however, life got in the way and my daughter needed me. I had to abandon my educational pursuits and just be content with the job I had.

In late 2019, I lost Christina to an unexpected heart attack. Then in early 2020, Charles died of a heart attack and diabetic complications. One month after their funeral … for some strange reason, I lost my Honolulu Star-Advertiser job of nearly 17 years. “I lost everything!” For more than two years, I was trapped in my mind and sought professional help in order to think and act as a normal person.

After many suicide attempts, I have often wondered why I was left behind and didn’t follow my children to the grave. I now want to take free classes at the University of Hawaii at Manoa to improve my writing skills to develop inspirational stories of hope.

As I look back on my life, I wish someone had encouraged me to go to college when I was a junior or senior in high school. Maybe life would’ve been different and better.

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About the Authors

Jenny Delos Santos

Jenny Delos Santos is a community advocate for mental health and domestic violence.

Caroline Kunitake

Caroline Kunitake is a member of the American Association of University Women’s Honolulu branch.

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If you have the time and the means or a very certain plan to leverage a college degree then, by all means, go for it. For me an undergraduate degree enabled me to get my Master's degree which was a checkbox item in my profession. Without the Master's degree my career would have peaked. I also realize that I'm electromechanically gifted, and if I had chosen to I could have easily gone the shop class, trade school, and certifications route, earned as much money, and would have been equally happy.If you are bent on going the white collar professional route then college is your path. I tried scrolling through my contacts list and counted 115 people who aren't even working in field of their degree, 56 of which never used their degree. 2 have Law degrees. 1 masters degree in education. 1 engineering degree. 1 PhD in History. Some of these folks have $100,000 to $200,000 invested in their unused college education. I also know 3 people without college degrees who did well in engineering fields.A college degree can lead to joy-providing professional and financial rewards. But it is not a guarantee. Largely, your efforts are what create opportunities.Imua.

downtownie · 4 months ago

I also read Eric Stinton's piece. I think we should encourage people (especially young people) to pursue a wider education not 'higher' one, assuming a BS MS PhD hierarchy of some sort. First, as several CB commenters have stated in various education pieces, education should be about more than preparing someone for a job, and secondly different people will have different skills, aspirations and ways of seeing themselves in this world. "Higher" education may be the right path for some, but other, equally worthy paths, will suit others.

Robo · 4 months ago

Mahalo for sharing your courageous story Jenny. May your children now rest in peace. The life decision on whether to go college right after high school is a personal one with no guarantee. Kindling the 🔥 within draws on the knowledge and life experiences you have gained. You choose each next step forward as we all wish and pray 🙏🏾 for you along the way. Hauoli La Pule…

Canoe · 4 months ago

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